Some black men do, sure. I’ve known some like that. I’ve also known some who are strictly all about black women.
If that preference for white women is so strong that they’ll completely and totally ignore black women in the process, that’s dating with blinders, and vice versa. Both bother me more than a bit, but hey…as long as the two participants are content with each other, I can’t really say I’m comfortable making it my business to confront either group of men/women. Both extremes are prejudicial, however, and frankly, you’ve severely limited yourself in any possible search for someone compatible.
To make things worse, the acquaintances I knew with eyes strictly for white women would often become visibly irritated with me, simply because I refused to put those same silly blinders on. Why, lol???
It irritated me because even though I was dating a black woman (one whom I later married, btw), I had absolutely no qualms with dating a white woman. Hell, the girlfriend prior to my future wife had been white, and had she not been from a family completely opposed to her dating black men, I could’ve just as easily seen myself with her many years later.
Anyway, I think it’s much to do with exposure. I was raised in a black family, but in a white neighborhood. Because of my classes and extracurricular activities at school, I found myself alongside mostly white kids then. On the other hand, I also had to spend much time at church each week while growing up, which was almost exclusively black. Overall, it wasn’t perfect- and not quite that simple- but today I’m very thankful things shook out that way for me.
Bottom line, I believe that if we weren’t so collectively segregated in this country, we eventually wouldn’t harbor so many assumptions and misconceptions. Get rid of misinformation, you eventually break down barriers. Break down barriers- this discussion and others like it, become a non issue, and our descendants likely wonder what all the fuss was about.
The Essence of Beauty: A Celebration of the Beautiful Girl
Beauty is often seen as a fleeting characteristic, something tied to appearances and the superficial. But there is a deeper, more profound beauty that transcends the physical, something that is embodied by the notion of the “beautiful girl.” The beautiful girl is not just someone who catches your eye with her physical attributes, but someone whose inner qualities—her kindness, strength, intellect, and authenticity—create an everlasting impression.
Appearance style is an integral part of one’s image. It carries a vast amount of information about a woman. Through style, one can infer a woman’s personality, preferences, emotions, intelligence, social status, and, of course, age. Style is the collective concept of the image a woman has chosen for herself. It represents the harmonious unity of outward appearance and inner content.
The beautiful girl understands that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, colors, and ages. She knows that diversity is what makes the world vibrant and that everyone has their own version of beauty to offer. Her message is simple yet powerful: true beauty lies in being yourself, embracing your individuality, and spreading love and kindness wherever you go.
In a world often obsessed with appearance, the beautiful girl’s influence can be profound. She challenges the traditional ideals of beauty and redefines them. By embracing her uniqueness, she encourages others to do the same. Her presence calls for a shift in perspective, one where inner beauty is celebrated as much as outward appearance.
«Fashion passes, style remains,» these words belong to Coco Chanel. By choosing a specific clothing and makeup style, a woman can follow fashion changes as much as she wants, while still preserving her own style. Stylists distinguish the following main styles: classic, business, «Chanel,» romantic, sporty, avant-garde, folklore, fantasy, diffuse, and «Glamour» style. Each of these styles has its own characteristics.
